Do I Like Him Quiz

1. I notice his flaws and quirks and still feel drawn to him as a whole person.

2. I’m curious about his opinions, experiences, and what matters to him.

3. I’d respect him even if we never dated because I genuinely value who he is.

4. I get a noticeable rush of excitement when I see his name pop up on my phone.

5. I can name specific qualities I admire in him (not just “he’s cute” or “he likes me”).

6. I like the idea of being seen as someone who’s wanted/chosen more than I like him.

7. I catch myself wanting to “win him over” more than wanting to know him deeply.

8. I feel calmer after talking to him when I’ve had a rough day.

9. I’d still want to spend time with him even if it was clearly not romantic.

10. I feel nervous (in a good way) around him because I like him so much.

11. We have moments that feel emotionally close (not just flirty).

12. I find myself more excited to tell friends about his attention than to talk about his qualities.

13. I can express affection or care for him without feeling embarrassed or unsafe.

14. If he stopped giving me attention, I think my interest would drop fast.

15. I’m interested in how we function together (communication, humor, timing), not just the label of “us.”

16. I feel a strong desire to deepen the connection between us.

17. When I picture dating him, I’m excited about who he is, not just that I’d have a boyfriend.

18. My mood improves when I get to spend time with him.

19. When something good happens, I want to tell him because he feels like a safe person.

20. I think about him multiple times a day.

21. I feel like he tries to understand my perspective, even when we differ.

22. I’m comfortable telling him about my worries or stress.

23. When I think about my near future, I naturally picture him in it.

24. I want to be part of his life more than just casually.

25. When something bad happens, I want to tell him because he feels like a safe person.

26. I trust him to handle my feelings with respect.

27. I can talk to him about things I don’t usually share with people.

28. We can share honest feelings without it turning into a big conflict.

29. When I haven’t heard from him, I notice it and wonder why.

30. I pay attention to whether our values and lifestyles would actually work together.

31. I feel like he genuinely listens when I talk about something meaningful.

32. I replay moments with him in my head afterward.

33. I can be quiet around him without it feeling awkward.

34. I feel emotionally “seen” by him in a way that matters to me.

35. I’m attracted to his mind/personality, not only his looks.

36. I feel a little jealous or unsettled when I picture him being romantic with someone else.

37. I notice small details about him (his expressions, habits, or the way he talks).

38. I feel disappointed when plans with him don’t happen or get cut short.

39. I mainly like how he makes me feel (wanted, chosen, admired) rather than liking him as a person.

40. I feel interested in his everyday life details (what he’s working on, what he enjoys) even when it’s not about me.

41. When something happens, he is one of the first people I want to tell.

42. I feel a sense of mutual warmth between us.

43. After we talk, I feel more connected to him, not just entertained.

44. If he turned out to be less popular/admired by others, I’d probably lose interest.

45. If someone else gave me the same attention he does, I might feel similarly about them.

46. He seems to care about what I’m feeling, not just what I’m doing.

47. If I told him something sensitive, I believe he would keep it private.

48. I look forward to seeing him more than I look forward to most other plans.

49. I imagine what it would feel like to hold his hand, hug him, or kiss him.

50. When I’m with him, I feel accepted rather than judged.

51. I find myself daydreaming about what it would be like to date him.

52. He remembers details about me that feel personal (not just surface facts).

53. I’m comfortable showing imperfect sides of myself around him.

54. I feel emotionally safe being myself around him.

55. I notice and appreciate his character (how he treats others, honesty, kindness).

56. I catch myself checking if he has viewed, liked, or responded to something I sent.

57. I go out of my way to create chances to talk to him.

58. I would choose him as my plus-one or preferred partner for events or outings.

59. If he flirted with me, I would feel genuinely thrilled (not just flattered).

60. When he’s not around, I miss him specifically, not just the attention he gives me.

61. I can imagine having real conversations with him about hard topics (boundaries, goals, feelings).

62. I feel a strong pull to be physically close to him (sitting near, standing near, etc.).

63. I compare other potential interests to him in my mind.

64. I feel comfortable asking him for emotional support when I need it.

65. I feel calmer and more grounded around him, not just “hyped” by the attention.

66. If I could choose, I would spend more one-on-one time with him.

67. I feel like we’re building trust over time.

68. My feelings change a lot depending on whether he texts/calls me.

69. What I like most is the thrill/novelty of the situation (crush energy, chase, suspense).

70. When I share something personal, I feel understood by him.

71. I care a lot about what he thinks of me.

72. A big part of my interest is proving to myself (or others) that I can get him to like me.