Do I Have a Crush on My Friend Quiz

1. I read into small changes in my friend's tone (texts, calls, in-person) as clues about their feelings for me.

2. I look for “proof” that my friend likes me more than they like other people.

3. I feel emotionally “in sync” with this friend (like we’re on the same wavelength).

4. I picture doing couple-like activities with this friend (hand-holding, anniversaries, meeting family).

5. I would feel a real emotional loss if we drifted apart.

6. When my friend mentions someone they might date or like, I feel a noticeable spike of discomfort or jealousy.

7. When this friend is happy, I feel genuinely happy too.

8. Seeing my friend post pictures with others makes me feel excluded or jealous.

9. I sometimes compare myself to people this friend might date.

10. I feel a spark when this friend touches me (even casually).

11. I like imagining what it would be like to share more of my daily life with this friend.

12. I’m curious whether this friend could ever be attracted to me romantically.

13. I enjoy compliments from this friend more than compliments from most people.

14. I feel a bit “giddy” after spending time with this friend.

15. I mentally track how often my friend reaches out to me compared with other people.

16. I sometimes wonder what it would be like to be physically intimate with this friend.

17. When my friend cancels plans with me, I suspect they chose someone else instead.

18. I feel possessive of my friend’s time or attention.

19. I feel emotionally closer to this friend than to most other people in my life.

20. I notice myself feeling competitive with certain people in my friend’s life.

21. I find myself wanting this friend’s attention more than I want other friends’ attention.

22. I sometimes replay our interactions in my head like someone with a crush would.

23. I feel disappointed when our conversations stay surface-level.

24. I feel butterflies or nervous excitement when I’m about to see this friend.

25. I tend to prioritize replying to this friend over replying to other people.

26. I want this friend to understand the “real me.”

27. I want to know what this friend is thinking and feeling, even when they don’t say it directly.

28. If my friend is slow to reply, I assume it might be because they’re talking to someone else.

29. I would like to go on a real date with this friend (not just hang out).

30. I feel a sense of relief when I learn my friend isn’t interested in anyone else.

31. When I think about my future relationships, I can imagine this friend in that role.

32. I find myself thinking about kissing this friend.

33. I want more one-on-one time with this friend than I usually want with other friends.

34. I interpret some of our moments as having romantic potential (even if it’s subtle).

35. I’m interested in whether this friend is single, dating, or attracted to someone.

36. I feel a pull to flirt with this friend (even subtly).

37. I care a lot about what this friend thinks of me.

38. I look forward to seeing this friend in a way that feels different from regular friendship.

39. I pay extra attention to who likes or comments on my friend's social media.

40. If this friend asked me out, I would probably say yes.

41. My mood for the day can change based on how much attention my friend gives me.

42. When my friend talks about an attractive person, I feel personally threatened or replaced.

43. I share personal feelings with this friend that I don’t share with many others.

44. I would feel jealous if this friend was emotionally close with someone else in a way that resembles dating.

45. I notice and remember small details about this friend’s feelings, preferences, or worries.

46. I have trouble focusing on other things because thoughts about my friend keep popping up.

47. I replay recent conversations with my friend in my head to look for signs they might like me back.

48. If I haven’t heard from this friend in a while, I feel a stronger sense of missing them than I do with other friends.

49. I find myself comparing myself to people my friend seems close to or attracted to.

50. I get a little rush when this friend messages me or responds quickly.

51. I feel compelled to know details about my friend's dating life or who they’re talking to.

52. I feel irritated or down after seeing my friend being especially warm or flirty with someone else.

53. I try to position myself as my friend’s “closest” person because it feels safer.

54. I notice and appreciate this friend’s physical attractiveness more than I do with most friends.

55. I feel safe being emotionally vulnerable with this friend.

56. If I’m stressed or upset, I strongly prefer comfort from this friend.

57. I check my phone more than usual hoping to see a message from them.

58. I catch myself imagining what it would be like to be this friend’s partner.

59. I crave one-on-one time with this friend more than group hangouts.

60. I would like our relationship to become more than friendship.

61. I care about how I look or come across specifically when I’m around this friend.

62. I would be disappointed if this friend started dating someone else.

63. I want this friend to be part of my future plans in a meaningful way.

64. I get stuck analyzing what my friend “really meant” long after an interaction ends.

65. When something important happens, this friend is one of the first people I want to tell.

66. I feel uneasy when my friend spends a lot of time with someone else.

67. I feel a strong pull to check in on this friend’s feelings and well-being.

68. I feel especially valued when this friend chooses to spend time with me.

69. If someone assumed we were a couple, I wouldn’t mind (or I’d secretly like it).

70. It matters to me that this friend and I have our own “special” connection.

71. I feel calmer or more “myself” when I’m talking to this friend.

72. I worry that if I don’t stay close, someone else will “win” my friend’s attention.

73. I want to be someone this friend relies on emotionally.

74. I sometimes feel possessive or protective of this friend in a romantic way.

75. I feel like this friend “gets” me in a way most people don’t.

76. I look for reasons to be around my friend partly so I can see who else they’re close to.

77. Physical closeness with this friend (hugging, sitting close) feels especially meaningful to me.