Are We Just Friends, or Does He Like Me? Quiz

1. He often brings up other people he might date or finds attractive around me.

2. When we do spend time together, it feels like a typical friend hangout rather than a date-like vibe.

3. He doesn’t try to impress me specifically (no extra effort in appearance, stories, or attention).

4. He tries again to schedule if plans fall through.

5. He doesn’t try to create private moments; he keeps things public or social.

6. His body language around me feels casual/friendly rather than intimate or flirty.

7. He talks about me like a buddy (e.g., ""dude,"" ""bro,"" ""pal"") rather than in a romantic way.

8. He remembers and follows up on things I told him (events, worries, plans).

9. If I leave him on read or respond slowly, he still reaches out later instead of disappearing.

10. He doesn’t try to make future plans with me one-on-one (no ""we should do this together"" follow-ups).

11. He checks in after big moments in my life (exams, interviews, stressful days).

12. He avoids physical touch beyond what he would do with any friend.

13. He tries to learn my relationship status or asks questions that suggest curiosity about my dating life.

14. His compliments feel personal (about my personality, values, or unique traits), not generic.

15. He doesn’t show signs of jealousy when I mention someone else I might like.

16. He confirms plans close to the time instead of leaving me guessing.

17. If I flirt or hint at romance, he changes the subject or responds in a neutral way.

18. He tries to keep the conversation going by asking me questions about myself.

19. He doesn’t seem nervous, shy, or extra attentive around me in particular.

20. He seems more comfortable when other people are around than when it’s just the two of us.

21. He makes an effort to see me again after we spend time together.

22. He includes me in ""friend group"" language (e.g., ""we should all hang out"") rather than ""you and me"".

23. He keeps communication going between meetups rather than only talking when we’re about to meet.

24. He initiates conversations with me (texts/calls/DMs) without needing a reason.

25. He creates opportunities for physical closeness (sitting near me, leaning in, walking together).

26. He rarely tries to keep a conversation going just with me (e.g., he doesn’t follow up much).

27. When we’re in a group, he still makes an effort to spend time near me or talk to me.

28. He rarely gives me focused attention when we’re with others (he doesn’t seek me out).

29. He reaches out to me across different situations (not only when bored or lonely).

30. He responds to my messages politely, but without much warmth, playfulness, or flirtation.

31. He encourages me to date others or gives me advice like a friend would.

32. He makes time for me even when he is busy.

33. He looks for reasons to see me in person rather than only texting.

34. He keeps conversations on safe topics and doesn’t try to deepen emotional intimacy with me.

35. He’s happy to introduce me to people as a friend, without any ambiguity.

36. He communicates clearly about his availability rather than giving mixed follow-through.

37. He doesn’t only reach out late at night or at the last minute.

38. He rarely initiates contact unless it’s about practical plans or shared group activities.

39. He treats me similarly to how he treats his other friends.

40. He reaches out even when he doesn’t need something from me.

41. He is consistent—his attention doesn’t disappear for long periods without explanation.

42. When I propose one-on-one plans, he avoids committing or redirects to a group plan.

43. He consistently responds within a reasonable time (for him), not only when it suits him.

44. He prioritizes other friends or activities over spending time with me, without trying to reschedule.

45. He makes ""friend zone"" type jokes or comments that emphasize we’re just friends.

46. He follows through on plans he suggests.

47. When he says “let’s do it,” he takes steps to set it up (details, timing, logistics).

48. He makes me feel like a priority rather than an afterthought.

49. He flirts with me (teasing, playful banter, “inside jokes,” or suggestive humor).

50. When he says he will call or text later, he actually does.

51. He initiates one-on-one time with me, not just group hangouts.

52. He remembers small details I’ve mentioned (preferences, stories, important dates).

53. I rarely feel like I’m the only one maintaining contact.

54. His communication with me feels steady rather than random.

55. He responds positively when I hint at hanging out one-on-one (enthusiastic, makes a plan).

56. He proposes specific plans (day/time), not just vague “we should hang out.”

57. Over the past few weeks, his effort has stayed fairly consistent.

58. When he can’t make it, he lets me know and suggests an alternative time.

59. He doesn’t attempt playful teasing or banter that has a flirty edge.

60. He seems comfortable letting days or weeks pass without checking in with me.

61. If I don’t reach out, he still checks in within a day or two.

62. He suggests plans that feel like “date” energy (one-on-one, intentional, not purely practical).

63. He is usually the one who texts or messages first.

64. If I suggest an idea, he follows up to make it happen instead of leaving it hanging.

65. He does thoughtful things for me (small favors, sharing something I’d like, helping out) beyond basic politeness.

66. He keeps small promises (sending something, showing up, replying when he said he would).

67. His body language around me seems attentive (eye contact, facing me, mirroring, smiling).

68. He uses more emojis, warmth, or affectionate language with me than he seems to use with others.

69. He seems a little nervous or extra “on” around me compared to how he is with others.

70. He doesn’t go silent for long stretches without explanation.

71. He makes time for me even when he’s busy (or offers a clear alternative time).

72. He usually suggests hanging out in a group rather than one-on-one.

73. He makes appropriate, light physical contact (touching my arm, a hug that lingers, playful nudges).

74. He follows up if I don’t respond right away (without being rude), showing he cares about continuing the chat.

75. He talks to me about his problems in a way that feels like venting to a friend, not trying to bond romantically.

76. He checks in on me (how I’m doing, how something went) without being prompted.

77. His compliments (if any) are general and non-flirty (e.g., ""nice job,"" ""cool"") rather than about attraction.

78. He takes initiative to move conversations forward rather than letting them fade.