Am I Selfish Quiz
Understand whether you seem selfish or are setting healthy boundaries in about 10 minutes. Get an 87 question profile with tips to build empathy, communicate better, and balance give and take.
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Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
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Boundary Balance (BB)
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9.3
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4.9 — 13.7
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Empathy & Responsiveness (E&R)
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17
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12.8 — 21.2
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Self-Focus (S)
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10.6
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5.4 — 15.9
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Frequently Asked Questions
What does this quiz measure?
It assesses patterns in everyday behavior related to consideration for others, boundaries, and reciprocity. Items cover areas such as listening, sharing credit, apologizing, compromise, and responses to others’ needs.
How should responses be selected?
Select the option that best matches typical behavior in recent months, not a single event. Use the first answer that seems accurate and avoid overthinking each item.
How long does it take and how many questions are included?
Completion time is about 10 minutes. The quiz includes 87 situational questions.
What do the result profiles mean?
Results summarize tendencies that may appear self-focused, balanced, or overly self-sacrificing. The profile also provides practical suggestions for empathy, communication, and fair give-and-take.
Is this a diagnostic assessment?
No, it is designed for reflection and skill-building and does not diagnose any condition. For clinical concerns, a licensed mental health professional can provide an evaluation.
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Am I Selfish Quiz - Symptoms and Signs
Wondering if your choices come off as selfish—or if you’re just setting healthy boundaries? This “Am I Selfish?” quiz helps you reflect on everyday behaviors like sharing credit, listening, apologizing, compromise, and how you handle other people’s needs. You’ll answer situational questions and get a results profile that highlights patterns (self-focused, balanced, or overly self-sacrificing) plus practical tips for empathy, communication, and fair give-and-take. For insight and growth, not a diagnosis.
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