Am I Popular Quiz
Questions: 15 · 10 minutes
1. When you share an ordinary life update with your wider network, what response is typical?
It mainly draws a response from one or two close contacts, if anyone.
A small, familiar set of people usually reacts.
People from several parts of my network often respond.
It regularly draws attention and conversation from close contacts and looser acquaintances alike.
2. If you miss a meeting, class, club, or recurring social event, how often is your absence noticed?
Usually only if I had a specific responsibility or told someone beforehand.
A close contact may check where I was.
Several regulars often mention that they noticed I was missing.
People from different parts of the group commonly notice and ask about me.
3. When you reach out because you would like company, what response do you usually receive?
Responses are inconsistent, so I often make plans on my own.
One dependable person will usually reply, although timing may not work out.
Several people generally respond, and someone often suggests a workable plan.
People respond readily, and they often make an active effort to see or include me.
4. Two people in your wider social circle would probably get along but have not met. What is your usual position?
I am more likely to know one of them well and only recognize the other.
I could introduce them if the opportunity arose naturally.
I often connect people because I understand how different parts of my circle overlap.
People regularly meet through me, and I often become the link between social circles.
5. In the groups you spend time with, how often do others make room for your participation?
I usually need to find my own opening or connect with someone individually.
People include me when I speak up or signal that I want to join.
Others often draw me into conversations and activities without prompting.
People consistently notice my participation and actively make sure I am part of things.
6. After you recommend a show, place, activity, or idea, what usually happens?
People acknowledge the suggestion, but I rarely know whether they try it.
A close friend may try it and later mention it to me.
Several people often follow up on my recommendations.
My recommendations regularly spread through the group or become shared plans and interests.
7. How often do people in your social world share meaningful news with you personally?
Most updates reach me later or through general conversation.
One or two close people tend to tell me directly.
People in several relationships often choose to update me personally.
Many people treat me as someone they especially want to tell or consult.
8. When you propose a casual outing or activity, what typically follows?
I usually need to approach people individually to find someone interested.
A close contact may join if the timing suits them.
Several people commonly show interest and help turn it into a plan.
My suggestion often attracts a group quickly or prompts others to rearrange plans.
9. When you arrive at a gathering where you know some—but not all—of the people, what usually happens?
I generally settle in with the one or two people I know best.
A few familiar people acknowledge me once I approach them.
Several people notice me and greet me during the first part of the event.
People from different parts of the gathering recognize me and initiate greetings.
10. Friends are making a casual plan for later that day. How likely are you to be included without asking?
I usually hear about plans only if I contact someone or happen to be present.
I am included when a close friend is organizing or remembers to ask me.
I am invited fairly often, especially by groups I spend time with regularly.
People routinely think to include me, even when plans come together spontaneously.
11. Outside your closest circle, how widely do people tend to know who you are?
Mostly people I have spent substantial one-on-one time with know me.
Some acquaintances recognize me, usually within one regular setting.
People across a few settings often know my name and basic details about me.
I am frequently recognized by people from several circles, including some I barely know.
12. A group is undecided about where to go or what to do. What role do you usually play?
I tend to go along with whichever option gains momentum.
I share a preference if someone asks me directly.
People often consider my suggestion when comparing the options.
The group frequently asks for my view, and my suggestion often shapes the decision.
13. When someone introduces you at a social event, which situation is most typical?
The other person is usually hearing about me for the first time.
They may recognize my name after being reminded where we overlap.
They often say they have seen me around or heard my name before.
They frequently already know who I am or have heard specific things about me.
14. During a lively group conversation, how do others usually respond when you contribute?
My comments fit into the flow without changing its direction much.
One or two people tend to engage with what I said.
The wider group often responds or builds on my point.
My contribution frequently becomes a focus of the conversation or redirects it.
15. After a group event ends, what tends to happen next?
I rarely hear more unless I send the first message.
I may exchange a brief message with the person I know best.
People often follow up, share something from the event, or mention meeting again.
Follow-up conversations and new invitations commonly continue with several people.