Am I in Love Quiz

1. I’m ready to make choices that support the relationship (time, habits, priorities).

2. I feel a strong desire to comfort them when they are hurting.

3. I get jealous mainly because I fear being replaced.

4. I want to build a relationship where we actively choose each other, not just drift along.

5. I prefer clarity and honesty over keeping things vague or undefined.

6. I feel empty or lost when I’m not in contact with them.

7. I feel panicky or physically unsettled when they don’t respond quickly.

8. I want to be a meaningful part of this person's life, not just a casual presence.

9. I’m comfortable discussing what we are and where we’re headed.

10. I’m willing to integrate our lives more (friends, routines, or families) at a comfortable pace.

11. I can tolerate temporary distance (busy weeks, travel) without assuming the relationship is falling apart.

12. I miss this person when we are apart.

13. I am willing to prioritize this relationship when life gets busy.

14. If we go a while without talking, I feel a noticeable longing to reconnect.

15. I feel that my feelings for this person are consistent over time (not just on-and-off).

16. I can enjoy time away from them without feeling the relationship is in danger.

17. I feel a strong warmth and affection toward this person.

18. I’m willing to make repair attempts after conflict (apologize, reconnect, reset).

19. I can imagine making plans that include them in my future.

20. My feelings for them are mostly about who they are, not about what they provide for me emotionally.

21. I often think about this person during my day.

22. I feel capable of being loyal to one person in a committed relationship right now.

23. Even with their flaws, I feel a strong affection and acceptance toward them.

24. When I think of them, I feel a steady sense of fondness (not just excitement).

25. I want to know this person deeply (their values, fears, hopes, and history).

26. I value building trust slowly and steadily, even when excitement fades.

27. If they were happier without me, I could accept that—even if it hurt.

28. I care about their feelings in a deep, personal way.

29. I sometimes compromise my values or needs just to keep them close.

30. I want our connection to be exclusive (if we’re dating/romantic).

31. I feel calmer or more settled when I know we are okay.

32. I feel drawn to support them when they are stressed or struggling.

33. I admire this person for who they are, not just for how they make me feel.

34. I can care deeply about them while still keeping my own life, friendships, and goals active.

35. I want to be a consistent presence in this person’s life.

36. I feel love as a choice to care for them, not a constant need to be chosen back.

37. Even when I'm busy, I find myself making time for them.

38. I prefer a relationship that grows more stable over time, not just intense in the moment.

39. I often need them to prove their feelings to calm my anxiety.

40. I stay in the connection primarily because it aligns with my values and feels mutually supportive.

41. I’m willing to make compromises to keep the relationship healthy.

42. Even during conflict, I can stay connected to their humanity and perspective.

43. My sense of self stays steady whether or not they are giving me attention.

44. I feel motivated to show up as my best self because I care about our relationship.

45. I trust this person with parts of my inner world (my feelings, worries, or personal truths).

46. I can be dependable even when I’m stressed or in a bad mood.

47. I look for signs (texts, tone, timing) to confirm whether they still care about me.

48. I can picture sharing parts of my everyday life with this person (routines, small moments).

49. When we have conflict, I focus more on not being abandoned than on solving the issue.

50. When I think about commitment, I feel mostly calm rather than trapped or panicked.

51. If we disagree, I try to understand their perspective before reacting.

52. I’m willing to adjust my expectations to match what we can realistically build together.

53. Being emotionally close to this person feels important to me.

54. I trust this person enough to be emotionally open over time.

55. I can picture building a future with this person (e.g., plans months or years ahead).

56. I sometimes use guilt, pressure, or testing behaviors to get closeness or reassurance.

57. I want our connection to be exclusive or clearly defined in a romantic way.

58. I’m willing to have difficult conversations instead of avoiding them.

59. I can be happy for them when they enjoy others’ company, without needing to be the center of it.

60. I feel happy just being near this person, even without doing anything special.

61. I feel proud of this person and enjoy celebrating their wins.

62. I want them to grow as a person, even if that growth sometimes means more independence from me.

63. My mood depends heavily on how close they seem to me day to day.

64. I can handle the vulnerability that comes with committing to someone.

65. I find myself needing frequent contact to feel secure in the connection.

66. I’m more afraid of losing them than excited about building a shared future.

67. When problems come up, I try to work through them rather than pull away.

68. If they need space, I interpret it as a sign the relationship is failing.

69. I feel genuinely interested in their day-to-day experiences and thoughts.

70. I can trust their care without needing constant proof.

71. I respect their boundaries even when it makes me uncomfortable.

72. If they need space, I can still feel connected while giving it to them.

73. I follow through on what I say I’ll do in this relationship.

74. I feel protective of our connection and want to treat it with care.

75. I feel emotionally safe being vulnerable with this person.

76. I feel a strong desire to maintain and grow our bond.

77. I stay in the connection partly because being without them feels unbearable.

78. I feel a strong pull to express affection to them (words, touch, or thoughtful actions).

79. I can ask directly for what I need without trying to control their response.

80. When I think about them, I mostly feel a need for reassurance that they won’t leave.

81. When something good happens, they are one of the first people I want to tell.