Yandere Quiz

1. Rejection makes me want to try harder instead of moving on.

2. I feel uneasy when my crush/partner has close friendships that don’t involve me.

3. When I feel threatened, I want to “lock things down” by pushing for labels or commitment fast.

4. I prefer relationships with clear exclusivity rules, even early on.

5. If they don’t include me in plans, I feel rejected and want to make sure it doesn’t happen again.

6. I can stay calm when someone I like spends time with other friends.

7. I can tolerate uncertainty (""maybe"" or ""I’m not sure"") without pushing for an instant answer.

8. I get jealous quickly when my crush/partner mentions someone they find attractive.

9. I would feel relieved if my crush/partner shared passwords or gave me full access “to prove” trust.

10. I find it hard to be interested in more than one person at a time because I fixate on one.

11. If I realize my feelings are stronger than the other person’s, I can step back respectfully.

12. I would ask them to limit contact with an ex or someone who clearly likes them.

13. When I’m jealous, I want frequent reassurance that I’m the most important person to them.

14. I can go from sweet to cold quickly if I feel replaced or ignored.

15. I sometimes test someone’s loyalty to see if they’ll choose me.

16. I would rather they cancel plans with others than miss time with me.

17. If someone sets a boundary about physical touch, I follow it consistently.

18. I do not use guilt, pity, or pressure to keep someone close when they pull away.

19. If I think someone is trying to “take” them from me, I feel justified being more controlling.

20. If my crush/partner is friendly with others, I assume it might turn into something romantic.

21. If they don’t reply quickly, my mind goes to worst-case scenarios involving someone else.

22. If someone seems like a “rival,” I pay extra attention to what they’re doing around my crush/partner.

23. I would feel relieved if I knew my crush/partner had no other close options.

24. I can feel jealous without acting on it in controlling or intrusive ways.

25. If my crush/partner seems to enjoy someone else’s attention, I feel a strong urge to “claim” my place.

26. I worry a lot about being replaced by someone “better.”

27. I want to be the person they go to first for everything, even small things.

28. I respect privacy (e.g., I don’t look through someone’s phone or messages without permission).

29. I don’t make dramatic ultimatums (""Choose me or them"") when I feel insecure.

30. If someone stops responding, I send one follow-up at most and then let it go.

31. I feel uncomfortable when my crush/partner keeps parts of their life private from me.

32. I get jealous even over “small” things (likes, comments, inside jokes).

33. I don’t try to ""test"" someone’s feelings by threatening to leave or withholding affection.

34. If someone compliments my crush/partner, I feel a spike of jealousy even if they did nothing wrong.

35. If someone I like says they need space, I respect it without trying to negotiate immediately.

36. I feel a strong need to know who my crush/partner is spending time with.

37. I want to be the most important person in my crush/partner’s life.

38. When I feel rejected, I can soothe myself without needing immediate reassurance from the other person.

39. I check their socials or status more often than I’d like to admit.

40. If someone isn’t interested, I don’t keep trying to ""win them over"" after they’ve been clear.

41. I feel a need to know where they are and who they’re with most of the time.

42. When I get a clear ""no"" (e.g., to a date or a request), I accept it and move on.

43. I dislike the idea of my crush/partner being emotionally intimate with anyone else.

44. When I feel jealous, I have trouble focusing on anything else until it’s resolved.

45. I would feel tempted to show up “by coincidence” where they are to ease my jealousy.

46. I imagine “us against the world” with someone I’m attached to.

47. I get irritated when other people flirt with my crush/partner, even if it’s harmless.

48. When I like someone, my feelings become intense very quickly.

49. I’m tempted to check their social media to see who they interact with.

50. I feel calmer when I can confirm what they’re doing (for example, seeing updates, tags, or location sharing).

51. When I feel jealous, it’s hard for me to let it go.

52. When I’m upset, I give myself time to cool down before I message or confront someone.

53. If someone I like gets close to others, I feel threatened.

54. I avoid checking someone’s social media repeatedly to reassure myself when I feel uncertain.

55. If they spend a lot of time with someone else, I feel an urge to compete or outdo that person.

56. I can handle delayed replies without assuming the worst or escalating contact.

57. I don’t ask mutual friends to monitor someone’s activities or report back to me.

58. If they don’t reply fast, I assume something is wrong or they’re losing interest.

59. I’m willing to sacrifice a lot (time, friendships, hobbies) to keep them close.

60. I have trouble respecting emotional boundaries when I’m deeply attached.

61. I would rather they have fewer close connections if it meant our bond felt safer.

62. I sometimes reread messages or analyze tone to look for signs they like someone else.

63. I avoid collecting ""evidence"" (screenshots, timelines) to prove someone cares or doesn’t care.

64. I don’t show up uninvited to places just to ""run into"" someone I like.

65. If I sense someone “competing” for them, I become unusually motivated to win them over.

66. I’ve considered setting “rules” about who they can hang out with to avoid drama.

67. When I’m insecure, I might test them (for example, hinting at leaving) to see if they’ll fight for me.

68. If someone sets a boundary about messaging frequency, I stick to it.

69. After a breakup or rejection, I focus on my own routine instead of trying to reinsert myself into their life.

70. If someone pulls away, I feel an urge to pull them back in.

71. I think about them so much that it distracts me from other parts of my life.

72. If someone tells me a behavior makes them uncomfortable, I stop and adjust.

73. I can apologize and change course if I realize I crossed a boundary.