Sexual Orientation Test

1. I have daydreamed about going on dates with someone of my own gender.

2. I have felt tempted to kiss someone of my own gender.

3. I do not typically have a “type” I feel drawn to.

4. I seldom imagine myself in a romantic relationship with a specific person.

5. I have wanted to hold hands, cuddle, or be physically affectionate with someone of my own gender in a romantic way.

6. I feel a desire for physical intimacy (like kissing) with people of a different gender.

7. I have felt a strong urge to be close to a specific person of my own gender because I was attracted to them.

8. Most of my crushes have been on people of a different gender than mine.

9. I have experienced sexual attraction toward someone of my own gender.

10. I feel emotionally drawn to people of my own gender in a way that could become romantic.

11. Even when I like someone a lot, I usually do not want sexual contact with them.

12. I feel motivated to impress people of a different gender that I’m attracted to.

13. I usually find it easier to feel romantic chemistry with someone of a different gender.

14. If I date or consider dating, it is often for companionship rather than attraction.

15. I find people of my own gender physically attractive.

16. I have had recurring romantic fantasies involving someone of a different gender.

17. If I picture my ideal partner, that person could be my own gender.

18. I could go long periods without wanting sex and feel fine about it.

19. My strongest attraction experiences have involved people of a different gender.

20. When I think about dating, people of my own gender come to mind as potential partners.

21. I can find people good-looking without feeling sexual desire toward them.

22. I often feel content without sexual attraction being part of my life.

23. I notice myself feeling “butterflies” or nervous excitement around attractive people of my own gender.

24. I have fantasized sexually about someone of my own gender.

25. In real life (not just in theory), I have felt romantic attraction to a different-gender person.

26. I rarely experience romantic attraction (wanting to date or be in a relationship) toward anyone.

27. I have felt jealous or protective in a romantic way about someone of my own gender.

28. I can find people appealing without wanting physical intimacy with them.

29. I often feel unsure whether what I feel counts as attraction at all.

30. I can easily imagine myself in a romantic relationship with someone of a different gender.

31. When I picture an ideal partner, I usually picture someone of a different gender.

32. I seldom fantasize about sex with a real person I know or see.

33. I have had romantic crushes on people of my own gender.

34. I do not often feel “sparks” or chemistry with anyone.

35. I have fantasized romantically about someone of my own gender.

36. Most of the time, I do not feel a pull to pursue anyone romantically.

37. I experience sexual attraction toward people of a different gender.

38. Even when I feel close to someone, I usually do not want a romantic relationship with them.

39. I rarely feel motivated to seek out sexual experiences.

40. I feel a desire to flirt with people of my own gender.

41. It is common for me to feel neutral when someone flirts with me.

42. When friends talk about feeling “really into” someone, I often cannot relate.

43. I tend to develop butterflies or nervousness around people of a different gender I like.

44. If a person of a different gender shows interest in me, I often feel excited or intrigued.

45. I have sought out media (movies, books, social media) featuring same-gender romance because it resonates with me.

46. If I had complete freedom from expectations, I would still choose partners of a different gender.

47. I often feel content without romantic attraction being part of my life.

48. I rarely feel sexually attracted to other people.

49. I often feel a strong emotional pull toward people of a different gender.

50. When I think about long-term commitment, I am most drawn to a partner of a different gender.

51. I often feel that attraction is weaker or less frequent for me than for most people.

52. I have found myself hoping that a close friendship with someone of my own gender could turn into something more.

53. If someone of my own gender showed interest in me, I would be open to exploring it.

54. I could go long periods without wanting a romantic relationship and feel fine about it.

55. Crushes are uncommon for me.

56. I can imagine myself in a committed romantic relationship with someone of my own gender.

57. I find myself daydreaming about dating someone of a different gender.

58. I tend to flirt (or want to flirt) more with people of a different gender than mine.

59. I rarely feel motivated to seek out romantic experiences.

60. I often prefer different-gender characters or celebrities as my “types” or crushes.

61. For me, attraction (sexual or romantic) tends to be rare even when I meet many people.

62. I frequently notice people of a different gender as physically attractive.

63. Compliments or attention from attractive people of my own gender can feel exciting or appealing to me.

64. Physical intimacy is not something I naturally crave with other people.

65. I seek out dating or romantic opportunities primarily with people of a different gender.