Pansexual Test

1. I notice individual qualities (personality, values, vibe) more than gender when I’m attracted to someone.

2. If I use a label, I feel good about it rather than uneasy or conflicted.

3. I can talk about my identity without feeling like I need to “prove” it with a perfect label.

4. I feel okay if others use different labels for similar experiences; I know what fits me.

5. I have felt attraction to people of more than one gender.

6. I can see myself being attracted to someone with a very masculine gender expression, regardless of their gender identity.

7. My attraction feels inclusive of people with diverse gender identities and expressions.

8. Gender is not a major factor in whether I develop attraction to someone.

9. I can imagine feeling romantic or sexual attraction to someone regardless of their gender identity.

10. I can see myself being attracted to someone with an androgynous gender expression.

11. I feel comfortable putting my identity label (or “questioning/unlabeled”) on a profile if I wanted to.

12. I could be attracted to someone who uses they/them pronouns.

13. Gender plays little or no role in whether I feel attraction to someone.

14. I can imagine being attracted to someone who is intersex and identifies in various ways.

15. I can be attracted to people with a wide range of gender presentations (clothing, style, mannerisms).

16. When I picture potential partners, I naturally include more than one gender in my imagination.

17. I can imagine being sexually attracted to someone of any gender.

18. I feel comfortable revising my label if I ever need to, without feeling ashamed.

19. I would consider a long-term relationship with someone of any gender if we were compatible.

20. I have felt attraction toward people across multiple genders over time.

21. If I learn someone’s gender, it rarely determines whether I’m interested.

22. Right now, I feel more clarity than confusion about what label(s) describe me.

23. My patterns of attraction feel broad rather than limited to one gender.

24. I feel comfortable saying I’m “unlabeled” (or that I don’t use a specific label).

25. My attraction could include people who are genderfluid (their gender changes over time).

26. I feel that my attraction includes trans people as readily as cis people.

27. I can see myself being attracted to someone with a very feminine gender expression, regardless of their gender identity.

28. My attraction doesn’t shift based on whether someone is masculine, feminine, or androgynous.

29. I feel open to attraction across the full gender spectrum.

30. I can explain what my chosen label means to me in a way that feels accurate.

31. I feel at ease seeing multiple labels as potentially valid for me (or none), without feeling confused.

32. I could be attracted to someone even if their gender identity changes over time.

33. I could develop romantic feelings for people across multiple genders.

34. I have a label (or no-label stance) that I can imagine using for the foreseeable future.

35. When someone asks my sexuality, I can answer without feeling stressed or stuck.

36. Overall, the range of genders I could be attracted to feels broad.

37. My attraction to people is not limited by their gender identity.

38. I could experience sexual attraction to people across multiple genders.

39. I could be attracted to someone who is nonbinary or genderqueer.

40. I do not need someone to identify as a specific gender for me to feel attracted to them.

41. I could be attracted to someone who is a man (including trans men).

42. I feel comfortable describing my attraction using the word “queer.”

43. I can imagine being attracted to someone who is transgender.

44. My label choice feels like it supports me rather than boxes me in.

45. I have had crushes (romantic or sexual) that didn’t fit neatly into attraction to only one gender.

46. I could be attracted to someone whose gender I do not know yet.

47. My feelings about labels are relatively stable (even if I’m still learning).

48. If I connect strongly with someone, their gender would not automatically rule them out for me.

49. I can picture being attracted to someone who is agender (does not identify with a gender).

50. Compared with other labels, “pansexual” fits my attraction pattern better than labels that emphasize two genders.

51. The label “pansexual” feels like it could accurately describe me.

52. I could be attracted to someone who is a woman (including trans women).

53. I feel comfortable describing my attraction using the word “bisexual.”

54. I feel that my attraction can include nonbinary people.

55. When I think about my “type,” it isn’t defined by a specific gender.

56. I feel comfortable describing my attraction using the word “pansexual.”

57. If someone I liked came out as trans or nonbinary, it would not automatically change my attraction to them.

58. I experience attraction in a way that feels broad across genders rather than gender-specific.

59. My attraction feels open to people who don’t fit neatly into “man” or “woman.”

60. I can imagine being romantically interested in someone of any gender.

61. I can choose language for my identity that fits the context (friends, dating, family) and still feels true.

62. I relate to the idea of being attracted to people “regardless of gender.”

63. I would feel comfortable telling someone I’m attracted to people of all genders (or regardless of gender).

64. I can hold nuance (like “it depends”) without feeling like my identity is invalid.

65. I know the differences (for me personally) between pansexual, bisexual, and queer.

66. I don’t feel pressured to pick a label before I’m ready.

67. I have had crushes or attraction that surprised me because it didn’t match a single-gender pattern.

68. Even if my attractions change over time, I still feel clear about how I want to identify right now.

69. Choosing a label (or choosing not to label myself) feels like an intentional decision for me.

70. I would date someone regardless of whether they are a man, woman, nonbinary, or another gender.

71. I feel clear about which identity label(s) fit me best (or that I prefer no label).

72. I feel confident correcting misunderstandings about my label (or lack of label).