Does My Girlfriend Love Me Quiz

Questions: 59 · 10 minutes
1. She shows physical affection (e.g., hugs, holding hands) in a way that feels meaningful to me.
Strongly disagree
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2. If she needs space, she communicates that clearly rather than disappearing or going cold.
Strongly disagree
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Agree
3. When something bothers her about our relationship, she brings it up constructively.
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4. She shares her own feelings with me instead of keeping everything guarded.
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5. Even when she’s busy, she makes me feel emotionally connected rather than like an afterthought.
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6. She makes time for deeper conversations, not only quick or surface-level talk.
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7. I can easily recall recent moments when she showed me love or tenderness.
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8. I feel like we can talk through misunderstandings and reach clarity.
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9. Her affection feels consistent from week to week.
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10. She does small things to make my life easier (helping out, offering support) without being asked.
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11. Her effort in the relationship feels steady from week to week.
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12. My girlfriend regularly shows warmth toward me in everyday moments.
Strongly disagree
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13. When I’m stressed, she checks in on how I’m doing and offers emotional support.
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14. She responds to my messages or calls in a consistent way, especially when something is important.
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15. When I bring up an issue, she tries to understand rather than immediately defend herself.
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16. She prioritizes important moments for us (birthdays, events, big conversations).
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17. If I’m hurt by something she did, she takes it seriously rather than dismissing it.
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18. She is dependable when I need support, not just when it’s convenient.
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19. If there’s a conflict, she still shows up to work through it rather than avoiding it.
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20. I feel safe bringing up sensitive topics without fearing she’ll punish me emotionally (silent treatment, withdrawal).
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21. When I’m emotional, she stays engaged rather than telling me to “get over it.”
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22. If we have tension, she works with me to resolve it rather than pretending everything is fine.
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23. She communicates affection and appreciation in words (compliments, gratitude, affirmations) at least sometimes.
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24. She asks follow-up questions to understand my feelings, not just the facts.
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25. She makes time for me, even when she is busy.
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26. She regularly initiates plans to see me (not just reacts to my plans).
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27. She follows through on plans we make together.
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28. If I need reassurance, she’s willing to provide it rather than making me feel needy or annoying.
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29. She keeps her promises to me, even in small things.
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30. She shows empathy when I’m struggling (comforts me, validates my feelings, or offers care).
Strongly disagree
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31. She initiates contact with me (texts, calls, or plans) because she wants to connect.
Strongly disagree
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32. She is affectionate even when we are not having a “perfect” day.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
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33. If she says she’ll call or text at a certain time, she usually does.
Strongly disagree
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34. During disagreements, she stays emotionally present instead of shutting down.
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35. She seems interested in my inner world (thoughts, worries, goals), not just my day-to-day logistics.
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36. After an argument, she makes an effort to repair the connection (talk, apologize, hug, or reassure).
Strongly disagree
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37. She notices and responds when I seem stressed, tired, or upset.
Strongly disagree
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38. When something unexpected comes up, she reschedules instead of disappearing.
Strongly disagree
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39. She expresses affection in ways that match what matters to me (words, time, touch, help, gifts).
Strongly disagree
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40. She shows care through small communication habits (checking in, remembering details, following up).
Strongly disagree
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41. When we argue, she avoids personal attacks and focuses on the issue.
Strongly disagree
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42. I feel like she enjoys being close to me (emotionally or physically).
Strongly disagree
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43. She is consistent in how she treats me across good and stressful days.
Strongly disagree
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44. She can acknowledge my perspective even when she doesn’t fully agree with it.
Strongly disagree
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45. When I share something that matters to me, she listens without getting distracted or rushing me.
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46. When we are together, she is attentive rather than distracted.
Strongly disagree
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47. She admits when she’s wrong and can offer a genuine apology.
Strongly disagree
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48. She makes me feel wanted in the relationship.
Strongly disagree
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49. She clearly communicates when she can’t commit to something instead of giving mixed signals.
Strongly disagree
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50. She talks about future plans that include me.
Strongly disagree
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51. She can calm down and revisit a problem later instead of staying stuck in anger or avoidance.
Strongly disagree
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52. I feel confident she will show up when she says she will.
Strongly disagree
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53. I feel cared for by the little things she does (e.g., checking in, thoughtful gestures).
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Not sure
Agree
54. She tells me positive things about me (compliments, appreciation, praise).
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Not sure
Agree
55. She makes time for our relationship even when she’s busy.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
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Agree
56. When she’s upset, she tells me what’s wrong in a reasonably direct way.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
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Agree
57. She makes practical efforts to keep our relationship going (scheduling, planning, coordinating).
Strongly disagree
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58. She respects my boundaries during conflict (no pressure, threats, or emotional manipulation).
Strongly disagree
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59. When I apologize, she can accept it and move forward rather than holding it over me.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Not sure
Agree
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