Does My Girlfriend Love Me Quiz
Questions: 59 · 10 minutes
1. She shows physical affection (e.g., hugs, holding hands) in a way that feels meaningful to me.
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2. If she needs space, she communicates that clearly rather than disappearing or going cold.
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3. When something bothers her about our relationship, she brings it up constructively.
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4. She shares her own feelings with me instead of keeping everything guarded.
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5. Even when she’s busy, she makes me feel emotionally connected rather than like an afterthought.
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6. She makes time for deeper conversations, not only quick or surface-level talk.
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7. I can easily recall recent moments when she showed me love or tenderness.
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8. I feel like we can talk through misunderstandings and reach clarity.
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9. Her affection feels consistent from week to week.
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10. She does small things to make my life easier (helping out, offering support) without being asked.
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11. Her effort in the relationship feels steady from week to week.
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12. My girlfriend regularly shows warmth toward me in everyday moments.
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13. When I’m stressed, she checks in on how I’m doing and offers emotional support.
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14. She responds to my messages or calls in a consistent way, especially when something is important.
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15. When I bring up an issue, she tries to understand rather than immediately defend herself.
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16. She prioritizes important moments for us (birthdays, events, big conversations).
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17. If I’m hurt by something she did, she takes it seriously rather than dismissing it.
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18. She is dependable when I need support, not just when it’s convenient.
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19. If there’s a conflict, she still shows up to work through it rather than avoiding it.
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20. I feel safe bringing up sensitive topics without fearing she’ll punish me emotionally (silent treatment, withdrawal).
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21. When I’m emotional, she stays engaged rather than telling me to “get over it.”
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22. If we have tension, she works with me to resolve it rather than pretending everything is fine.
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23. She communicates affection and appreciation in words (compliments, gratitude, affirmations) at least sometimes.
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24. She asks follow-up questions to understand my feelings, not just the facts.
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25. She makes time for me, even when she is busy.
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26. She regularly initiates plans to see me (not just reacts to my plans).
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27. She follows through on plans we make together.
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28. If I need reassurance, she’s willing to provide it rather than making me feel needy or annoying.
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29. She keeps her promises to me, even in small things.
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30. She shows empathy when I’m struggling (comforts me, validates my feelings, or offers care).
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31. She initiates contact with me (texts, calls, or plans) because she wants to connect.
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32. She is affectionate even when we are not having a “perfect” day.
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33. If she says she’ll call or text at a certain time, she usually does.
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34. During disagreements, she stays emotionally present instead of shutting down.
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35. She seems interested in my inner world (thoughts, worries, goals), not just my day-to-day logistics.
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36. After an argument, she makes an effort to repair the connection (talk, apologize, hug, or reassure).
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37. She notices and responds when I seem stressed, tired, or upset.
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38. When something unexpected comes up, she reschedules instead of disappearing.
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39. She expresses affection in ways that match what matters to me (words, time, touch, help, gifts).
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40. She shows care through small communication habits (checking in, remembering details, following up).
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41. When we argue, she avoids personal attacks and focuses on the issue.
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42. I feel like she enjoys being close to me (emotionally or physically).
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43. She is consistent in how she treats me across good and stressful days.
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44. She can acknowledge my perspective even when she doesn’t fully agree with it.
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45. When I share something that matters to me, she listens without getting distracted or rushing me.
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46. When we are together, she is attentive rather than distracted.
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47. She admits when she’s wrong and can offer a genuine apology.
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48. She makes me feel wanted in the relationship.
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49. She clearly communicates when she can’t commit to something instead of giving mixed signals.
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50. She talks about future plans that include me.
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51. She can calm down and revisit a problem later instead of staying stuck in anger or avoidance.
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52. I feel confident she will show up when she says she will.
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53. I feel cared for by the little things she does (e.g., checking in, thoughtful gestures).
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54. She tells me positive things about me (compliments, appreciation, praise).
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55. She makes time for our relationship even when she’s busy.
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56. When she’s upset, she tells me what’s wrong in a reasonably direct way.
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57. She makes practical efforts to keep our relationship going (scheduling, planning, coordinating).
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58. She respects my boundaries during conflict (no pressure, threats, or emotional manipulation).
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59. When I apologize, she can accept it and move forward rather than holding it over me.
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