Does He Like Me Quiz

Questions: 83 · 10 minutes
1. His texting style is steady rather than hot-and-cold.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Not sure
Agree
2. He looks for opportunities to spend one-on-one time with me.
Rarely or never
Sometimes
Often
Very often
3. He gives me focused attention when we’re together (not distracted most of the time).
Rarely or never
Sometimes
Often
Very often
4. He makes plans in advance rather than only reaching out last-minute.
Never
Sometimes
Often
Almost always
5. He avoids repeated rescheduling that drags plans out for weeks.
He reschedules repeatedly
He reschedules sometimes
He rarely reschedules
He almost never reschedules
6. He makes it clear that spending time with me is a priority (not an afterthought).
Rarely or never
Sometimes
Often
Very often
7. He follows through on what he offers (rides, help, introductions) rather than just saying it.
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
Almost always
8. He initiates contact often enough that I don't wonder if I'm bothering him.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Not sure
Agree
9. He treats me similarly in private and around other people (no sudden switches).
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Not sure
Agree
10. If he's not interested, his behavior makes that clear without stringing me along.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Not sure
Agree
11. He prioritizes meeting up even when other options come up (without making you compete for his attention).
Not true
A little true
Mostly true
Very true
12. When I initiate, he responds in a way that clearly shows interest or clearly shows neutrality.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Not sure
Agree
13. He gives straightforward compliments or flirty signals rather than vague hints.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Not sure
Agree
14. After we spend time together, he continues the connection rather than fading out.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Not sure
Agree
15. Overall, his behavior gives me a clear read on where I stand with him.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Not sure
Agree
16. He does not pull away right after being warm or flirty.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Not sure
Agree
17. He follows up after we talk or hang out (e.g., checks in, references it later).
Rarely or never
Sometimes
Often
Very often
18. You feel you can count on him to do what he says regarding your interactions.
Not at all
A little
Mostly
Completely
19. He flirts with me in a way that feels more than platonic.
Rarely or never
Sometimes
Often
Very often
20. He responds to my messages in a way that shows engagement (not just one-word replies).
Rarely or never
Sometimes
Often
Very often
21. He shows up on time or lets you know ahead of time if he’ll be late.
Almost never
Sometimes
Usually
Almost always
22. He puts in comparable effort to you (not relying on you to do all the planning).
He puts in much less
He puts in a bit less
About equal
He puts in more
23. He clearly shows whether he prioritizes spending time with me (or clearly doesn't).
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Not sure
Agree
24. When he can't meet up or reply, he gives a clear reason or timeline.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Not sure
Agree
25. He communicates his intentions (romantic or platonic) in a way that reduces confusion.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Not sure
Agree
26. If he says he’ll call or text later, he actually does.
Never
Sometimes
Often
Almost always
27. He communicates clearly about availability instead of leaving messages unread for long stretches without context.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Not sure
Agree
28. If plans change, he reschedules instead of disappearing.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Not sure
Agree
29. He follows through even when it would be easier to do nothing (e.g., traveling a bit, adjusting his schedule).
Not at all
Occasionally
Often
Consistently
30. I can usually predict how he'll respond because his behavior is consistent.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Not sure
Agree
31. He confirms plans (or checks in) close to the day you’re supposed to meet.
Never
Occasionally
Often
Nearly always
32. He remembers plans you discussed and brings them up again later.
Never
Sometimes
Often
Almost always
33. He follows through on plans he proposes.
Rarely or never
Sometimes
Often
Very often
34. If something changes, he communicates clearly rather than disappearing.
Rarely or never
Sometimes
Often
Very often
35. He responds to your messages within a reasonable time for his usual schedule.
Rarely
Sometimes
Most of the time
Consistently
36. He makes specific plans (time/place) rather than vague 'we should hang out' statements.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Not sure
Agree
37. If something changes, he communicates promptly instead of leaving you guessing.
Almost never
Sometimes
Usually
Almost always
38. If he is interested, he makes it obvious through repeated effort (not just once).
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Not sure
Agree
39. He is clear about whether our time together is a date or just hanging out.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Not sure
Agree
40. When you’re waiting on an answer from him (plans/logistics), he doesn’t keep you hanging.
He often leaves me hanging
He sometimes leaves me hanging
He rarely leaves me hanging
He almost never leaves me hanging
41. He initiates contact with me (texting, calling, or messaging) without me prompting it.
Rarely or never
Sometimes
Often
Very often
42. When you suggest a plan, he gives a clear yes/no instead of staying vague.
Almost never
Sometimes
Often
Almost always
43. He uses playful teasing, inside jokes, or banter that feels like chemistry.
Rarely or never
Sometimes
Often
Very often
44. When he can’t make it, he offers an alternative time without you prompting him.
Never
Occasionally
Often
Nearly every time
45. He suggests specific plans to see me (time/place/activity), not just vague ideas.
Rarely or never
Sometimes
Often
Very often
46. He checks in after plans to make sure you got home okay or that things went well.
Never
Sometimes
Often
Almost always
47. When he suggests making plans, he follows up with specific details (day/time/place).
Never
Sometimes
Often
Almost always
48. He remembers details I’ve shared and brings them up later.
Rarely or never
Sometimes
Often
Very often
49. He sets clear boundaries if he only wants friendship (instead of acting romantic sometimes).
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Not sure
Agree
50. He makes time for me even when he’s busy (or offers alternative times).
Rarely or never
Sometimes
Often
Very often
51. He is consistent about how affectionate or flirty he is, instead of changing abruptly.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Not sure
Agree
52. He follows through on plans without leaving me guessing.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Not sure
Agree
53. He gives me genuine compliments (about my personality, looks, or achievements).
Rarely or never
Sometimes
Often
Very often
54. He asks me questions to learn about me (interests, values, plans).
Rarely or never
Sometimes
Often
Very often
55. He messages me just to share something or because it reminded him of me.
Rarely or never
Sometimes
Often
Very often
56. He initiates contact (texts/calls) even when you haven’t reached out first.
Never
Sometimes
Often
Very often
57. He creates or takes chances to be physically close (sitting near, walking together).
Rarely or never
Sometimes
Often
Very often
58. He makes an effort to see you even when his week is busy.
Not at all
A little
A fair amount
A lot
59. He is consistent over time (not hot-and-cold) in how he shows interest.
Rarely or never
Sometimes
Often
Very often
60. He follows through on small promises (sending a link, sharing info, doing a favor).
Rarely
Sometimes
Most of the time
Almost always
61. His level of attention is stable from week to week.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Not sure
Agree
62. He tries to impress me or show his best side (skills, humor, achievements).
Rarely or never
Sometimes
Often
Very often
63. I rarely feel like I'm decoding him or reading between the lines.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Not sure
Agree
64. He avoids ambiguous late-night messages that go nowhere (or clearly states what he wants).
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Not sure
Agree
65. He seems curious about my relationship status or hints at his own availability.
Rarely or never
Sometimes
Often
Very often
66. His effort feels steady week to week rather than intense one day and absent the next.
Very inconsistent
Somewhat inconsistent
Mostly consistent
Very consistent
67. He finds reasons to keep the conversation going (doesn’t let it die quickly).
Rarely or never
Sometimes
Often
Very often
68. He checks in about my day or how I’m doing, even when there’s no immediate reason.
Rarely or never
Sometimes
Often
Very often
69. He offers help or support in practical ways (rides, favors, problem-solving).
Rarely or never
Sometimes
Often
Very often
70. He makes time for you without making you feel like an afterthought.
Not true
Somewhat true
Mostly true
Very true
71. He uses appropriate, affectionate touch (e.g., light touch on arm) when it fits the moment.
Rarely or never
Sometimes
Often
Very often
72. He doesn't rely on 'maybe' or 'we'll see' when making plans with me.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Not sure
Agree
73. He makes an effort to keep momentum (e.g., setting the next plan after a date/hangout).
Never
Occasionally
Often
Nearly always
74. He makes an effort with his appearance when he knows he’ll see me.
Rarely or never
Sometimes
Often
Very often
75. He talks about future ideas that include me (even small ones like “we should try…”).
Rarely or never
Sometimes
Often
Very often
76. He doesn’t disappear for long stretches without explanation after showing interest.
This happens a lot
This happens sometimes
This happens rarely
This almost never happens
77. His words and actions line up (what he says he wants matches what he does).
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Not sure
Agree
78. When I ask a direct question about plans or feelings, he answers directly.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Not sure
Agree
79. He keeps plans instead of canceling at the last minute.
Almost never
Sometimes
Usually
Almost always
80. He doesn't send mixed messages (e.g., flirty one day and distant the next) without explanation.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Not sure
Agree
81. His words and actions match when it comes to seeing you and staying in touch.
They don’t match
They match sometimes
They mostly match
They consistently match
82. He introduces me to friends/coworkers or talks about including me in his world.
Rarely or never
Sometimes
Often
Very often
83. When you’re busy, he’s patient and still follows up later rather than giving up.
Never
Sometimes
Often
Almost always
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