Do I Love My Boyfriend Quiz

Understand whether your feelings are love or something else in about 10 minutes. With 78 focused items, you will get a clear snapshot of trust, values, and next steps for a real talk.
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March 25, 2026
March 25, 2026
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example score
19/NaN
Emotional Love & Closeness (EL&C)
Measures warmth, affection, and emotional intimacy, including how emotionally seen and connected you feel with your boyfriend.
Low closeness
Moderate closeness
High closeness
0NaNLow closeness14NaNModerate closeness27NaNHigh closeness
A score of 19 suggests a moderate level of emotional love and closeness, with some warmth and connection present but also room for uncertainty or emotional distance.
example score
19/NaN
Long-Term Compatibility & Intent (LTC&I)
Measures how aligned you are on shared values, life goals, willingness to work through problems, and desire to build a future together.
Unclear or misaligned
Some alignment
Strong long-term fit
0NaNUnclear or misaligned13NaNSome alignment23NaNStrong long-term fit
A score of 19 suggests moderate long-term compatibility, with several shared intentions but some areas that may still need clarification or alignment.
example score
15/NaN
Trust & Security (T&S)
Assesses how safe, honest, and reliable the relationship feels, including confidence in each other’s intentions and consistency.
Low trust
Mixed trust
High trust
0NaNLow trust11NaNMixed trust21NaNHigh trust
A score of 15 suggests mixed trust and security, with some areas feeling dependable while others still raise uncertainty or caution.
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DATA-BASED USER COHORTS

Who Usually Takes This Test?

New relationship unsure
41%OF USERS
People in the first months of dating who feel close but can’t tell if it’s real love or just excitement and comfort.
After a rough patch
34%OF USERS
Partners dealing with recent fights, trust concerns, or emotional distance who want to understand what their feelings mean now.
Considering the next step
25%OF USERS
Those thinking about moving in, long-term plans, or commitment and wanting to check if admiration, values, and intent truly align.
BASED ON AGGREGATED, ANONYMIZED DATA FROM TENS OF THOUSANDS OF FREUDLY USERS.
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Below is a preview of how scores are typically distributed across each scale.
Emotional Love & Closeness (EL&C)
Average
16.6
Normal range
11.621.6
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Long-Term Compatibility & Intent (LC&I)
Average
10.6
Normal range
6.414.7
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30
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Trust & Security (T&S)
Average
8.9
Normal range
4.413.4
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30
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Frequently Asked Questions

What does this quiz measure?
It assesses relationship feelings and patterns across emotional closeness, trust, admiration, conflict handling, shared values, and long-term intent. Results describe likely drivers of the connection, such as love, attachment, comfort, or uncertainty.
How long does it take to complete?
Estimated completion time is about 10 minutes. The quiz includes 78 questions.
How should responses be chosen?
Answer based on typical behavior and feelings over recent months, not a single event. Use the first response that fits best and avoid overthinking.
Are the results a clinical diagnosis?
No. The results are for self-reflection and clarity and are not a diagnosis or a substitute for professional care.
What should be done after receiving results?
Use the summary to identify themes to discuss, such as needs, boundaries, and expectations. If distress is persistent or safety is a concern, seek support from a qualified professional or trusted resources.
WHAT THE TEST MEASURES
About This Assessment

Do I Love My Boyfriend Quiz - Symptoms and Signs

Not sure if what you feel is love, attachment, comfort, or just a phase? This self-reflection quiz helps you sort through your feelings by looking at emotional closeness, trust, admiration, conflict patterns, shared values, and long-term intent. You’ll answer practical, relationship-based questions and get a clear summary of what may be driving your connection—plus gentle next steps for talking it through. For insight and clarity only, not a diagnosis.

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