Demisexual Test

1. I feel sexual attraction regularly (e.g., weekly or more).

2. If I sense dishonesty or mixed signals, sexual attraction is hard for me to feel.

3. If I don’t feel genuine mutual interest, I rarely experience sexual attraction.

4. I need to feel secure in the connection (not unsure where I stand) before sexual attraction can grow.

5. Sexual attraction is a frequent part of my experience when meeting new people.

6. Even when someone is flirting with me, I usually do not feel sexual attraction.

7. If there is unresolved conflict or tension, my sexual attraction is usually reduced or absent.

8. If I don’t feel respected as a whole person, sexual attraction doesn’t tend to appear for me.

9. Sexual attraction tends to happen quickly for me when I notice someone appealing.

10. Sexual attraction is more likely for me when I feel emotionally understood by someone.

11. I’m unlikely to feel sexual attraction unless I’m confident the other person respects my boundaries.

12. I can recognize that someone is attractive without feeling sexual attraction toward them.

13. When I see an attractive stranger, I often feel sexual attraction.

14. Over the past few months, I have felt sexual attraction to multiple people.

15. I frequently feel a clear sense of wanting sexual contact with a specific person.

16. I’m more likely to feel sexual attraction when I feel emotionally close (not just physically close) to someone.

17. I experience sexual attraction to other people often.

18. Feeling emotionally close is a prerequisite for me to want sexual intimacy with someone.

19. I can feel sexual attraction only in relationships (or relationship-like bonds) rather than with strangers.

20. An emotional connection usually needs to come first before I experience sexual interest.

21. Sexual attraction is something I experience with relative ease.

22. When I feel emotionally disconnected, sexual attraction is difficult for me to access—even if I generally like the person.

23. If I don’t feel a strong emotional connection, I rarely (or never) feel sexual attraction.

24. I need a strong emotional bond before I feel sexual attraction at all.

25. I can go on dates without feeling sexual attraction until I know the person much better.

26. I need mutual emotional investment (not one-sided) before sexual attraction can develop.

27. I almost never experience spontaneous sexual attraction.

28. I’m more likely to feel sexual attraction after deep conversations or meaningful sharing.

29. I feel sexual attraction to people I know well fairly often.

30. I tend to experience sexual attraction only after someone has become important to me.

31. When I do feel sexual attraction, it is usually toward someone I already feel close to.

32. When I feel pressured or rushed, my sexual attraction usually fades or doesn’t appear.

33. Sexual attraction tends to appear for me only after I feel emotionally close to someone.

34. It is common for me to feel sexually attracted to someone I don't know well.

35. When I see sexual or romantic content (movies, posts), I often feel sexual attraction toward someone.

36. I rarely feel sexual attraction, even when I meet people I find good-looking.

37. If I’m out socially (party, bar, event), I often notice people I feel sexually attracted to.

38. Without a sense of safety and comfort with a person, I am unlikely to feel sexually attracted to them.

39. I am more likely to feel sexually attracted to someone after I have developed affection for them.

40. I need to feel understood by a person before sexual attraction is possible for me.

41. Sexual attraction for me tends to grow out of friendship or close companionship.

42. Compared to others, I think I experience sexual attraction less frequently.

43. I am unlikely to feel sexually attracted to someone I have just met, even if we get along.

44. It is easy for me to feel sexually drawn to someone based on appearance alone.

45. Sexual attraction is much more likely for me after spending significant time getting to know someone.

46. It is rare for me to feel sexual attraction unless the situation is very specific.

47. I can count on one hand the number of times I’ve felt sexual attraction in the past year.

48. My sexual attraction depends a lot on whether I feel emotionally connected in that moment.

49. If I do not feel emotionally connected to someone, sexual thoughts about them are unlikely.

50. Feeling emotionally close is more important than novelty or excitement for sexual attraction to happen for me.

51. If I do not feel a personal connection, flirting may feel meaningless rather than arousing.

52. I usually need consistency over time (reliability, follow-through) before sexual attraction develops for me.

53. A calm, private, comfortable setting makes sexual attraction more likely for me.

54. Sexual attraction for me depends on having a strong sense of compatibility beyond looks.

55. I often need deep conversation or shared vulnerability before sexual attraction can show up for me.

56. I typically need time and repeated interactions before sexual attraction can develop.

57. Sexual attraction for me is occasional rather than frequent.

58. It takes a lot for sexual attraction to “switch on” for me.

59. I need emotional intimacy before I can feel a sexual “spark.”

60. I can feel sexual attraction without any emotional connection.

61. If I don’t feel a sense of emotional intimacy, physical appearance alone usually doesn’t spark sexual attraction for me.

62. In my day-to-day life, I go long stretches without feeling sexual attraction to anyone.

63. Even in romantic situations, I seldom feel sexual attraction.

64. I’m unlikely to feel sexual attraction unless the other person is emotionally available.

65. I only start to feel sexual attraction when I feel emotionally safe with someone.

66. Trust is a requirement for me before sexual attraction can show up.

67. I need to feel relaxed and not self-conscious with someone before I can feel sexual attraction.

68. When I imagine dating someone new, I usually feel sexual attraction early on.

69. I rarely feel sexually attracted to someone unless I already trust them.

70. Even if someone is physically my type, I may feel no sexual pull without knowing them well.

71. A strong bond makes sexual attraction possible for me in a way that looks do not.

72. My sexual attraction tends to be very specific to the context (mood, closeness, trust), not constant.

73. Feeling cared for (kindness, consideration) is important for sexual attraction to arise for me.

74. Most of the time, I do not feel sexual attraction toward anyone in particular.